套磁 熟人

套磁 熟人

I'm sitting on a plane from St. Louis to Orlando on the way to VSLive/ASPLive.  I was thinking about who I'm going to see at the conference.  I figure that my buddy Chris Kinsman will be there and possibly acquaintances of mine such as Keith Pleas.  Why just acquaintance?  I've had the pleasure to email Keith four or five times and I've met him four or five times, but when I see him I still lead with, "Keith! Scott Hanselman, how are you doing?" just in case Keith doesn't remember me, and this way he doesn't have to waste CPU cycles looking my face up.  I do the same thing with other acquaintances and "colleagues" like Chris Sells and Don Box and [Insert name here], et. al..  They are colleagues as I see them a few (sometimes several times) a year on campus or at conferences.  I say hi, but don't expect them to know my wife's name, since when you're holding all the WS-*.* specs in your head, sometimes you can't remember lots of trivial social details. 

我正坐在从圣路易斯到奥兰多的飞机上，前往VSLive / ASPLive。 我正在考虑要在会议上见谁。 我认为我的好友克里斯·金斯曼(Chris Kinsman)将会在那里，并且可能与我的相识者，例如基思·普莱斯(Keith Pleas)。 为什么只是相识？ 我很高兴给基思发了四，五次电子邮件，而我见过他四，五次，但是当我看到他时，我仍然打着：“基思！斯科特·汉塞尔曼，你好吗？” 以防万一Keith忘记了我，这样他就不必浪费CPU周期让我面目全非。 我与其他熟人和“同事”(例如Chris Sells和Don Box和[在此处插入名称]等)也做同样的事情。 al ..他们是同事，我每年在校园或会议上见到他们几次(有时几次)。 我打个招呼，但不要指望他们知道我妻子的名字，因为当您手持所有WS-*。*规范时，有时您会忘记很多琐碎的社交细节。

So I got to thinking about the difference between "friend" and "colleague/acquaintance."  I have some remote friends, Patrick Hynds for example, who I chat with a few times a week and who could TOTALLY crash at our place on a moments notice.  We've shared (soft) drinks many times and have stories going back years.   But, I've only seen Patrick at conferences and on campus also.  Hell, I started to realize that I see Don Box more than I see my uncles (I see them on the 4th of July and at Christmas) and Don remembers my name better than my cousins! 

因此，我不得不考虑“朋友”与“同事/熟人”之间的区别。 我有一些偏僻的朋友，例如Patrick Hynds，我每周与他们聊天几次，而他们可能很快就会在我们家完全崩溃。 我们分享了(软)饮料很多次，并且有很多可以追溯到几年前的故事。 但是，我只在会议和校园里见过Patrick。 地狱，我开始意识到，我看到唐·博克斯的机会比我叔叔(我在7月4日和圣诞节见到他们的叔叔)多得多，唐比他的堂兄弟更记得我的名字！

Therefore, I conclude that either:

因此，我得出以下结论：

A. I'm not nearly close enough to my family and need to spend more time with them instead of at conferences

答：我与家人的距离还不够近，需要花更多的时间陪伴他们而不是参加会议

or

要么

2. Patrick, Keith, Don, Clemens, Chris, Chris, Sam and MANY others that I see several times a year are my REAL family and will not be surprised when I show up on their door wondering if I can sleep on their couch.

2.帕特里克，基思，唐，克莱门斯，克里斯，克里斯，山姆和许多其他人，我每年都会见到几次我的真实家庭，当我出现在他们的门前想知道我是否可以在他们的沙发上睡觉时，我不会感到惊讶。

 Anyone else have this problem, or just me?

还有其他人遇到这个问题，还是只有我一个人？

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套磁 熟人