how to start a conversion

opening line:简明，有效; how are you?

start off with some simple questions: where do you come from? what do you do? how do you feel about it?

match your mood with that of your partner;产生共鸣

Don’t be offensive.不要对立

Don’t say only one word or sentence. some detail about yourself or comment on your partner said

Don’t ask too many questions or offer comments too often. Alternate between the two.

Don’t wait someone to talk to you first. move firstly